Marry or not?

Just woke up @ 3.30pm after an overnight mahjong session with my friends till 6am this morning... Seems like a lazy life of a rich tai-tai... Hmmm... "tai-tai"... just before the mahjong session, i had dinner with my jc gal-frens @ fish & co.,catching up... then mentioned that 1 of my gal-fren is getting rom this oct after knowing this guy for a few months... woah! lightning strike!

And during the mahjong session, we were "questioning" my guy-fren what is he looking for in a girlfriend and she said that we are already 25 this year & should not delay any longer.. if not, we'll still have to work hard in our 50s for our kids...

Oooh.. marriage seems to be the topic of our gatherings nowadays... just thinking behind the back of my mind... a year ago, am like most of the girls, hoping to get married young, have kids and have family.. but lately, when i see my friends who just broke up or those who are married & had kids, i began to wonder if i can live my life like that...

For one, i cant even be sure how long i can be in that r/s, liking or loving that person before marriage. How long can I continue loving that person bcos i feel that a r/s without love but just commitment/responsibility is not enough for me..

Next, i see that my friends are tied at home with thier kids, in-laws and husband and inevitably, they can no longer join us in our gatherings, outings... slowly they seems to be out of the circle & distant from us... is that why some people said that marriage is a tomb of freedom?

I am not saying that marriage is bad... i still agree to getting married & have kids but maybe not too young.. for i still wants to enjoy going out late without having to worry & join my friends for drinks & dance... But not to the point being left on the shelf when every1 is married & no1 to go out with... follow the majority i guess? =P

So for now, i think being single for me is good.. being involved in a few non-commitment flings sounds good too... haha! Afterall, life is short!