Mirror Reflections

Last night I finally managed met up with 2 of my Sec school buddies - Min & JL. It was 2yrs ago when the 3 of us met up for dinner/coffee but that does not mean that we were distant from each other... We still have so much to talk about and update each other about our work, r/s & basically life... These 2yrs all of us experienced different things & got to learn different lessons in life - happy/sad, ups/downs...

JL was bothered by his own r/s as his other half decided to take a time-off in this r/s. Every1 tells JL that is over, she wont come back but i know JL will always harbour a hope so long she did not mention "breakup" bcos i have been thru it...

JL & I are very similar in many aspects like our attitude in r/s... Both of us cannot take loneliness, we always need some1 by our side... We give all unconditionally in a r/s & end up getting all the hurt... But we dunno how to learn bcos to us, i believe that when i start to balance & consider who gave more/less, then this r/s start to lose its meaning...

Min is more level-headed than us. She has different perspective from us. But of course, then there are lot of things we dun agree with each other... I once saw a Taiwanese TV programme & they mentioned that "once u start to be rational in this r/s, this is no longer a true love r/s... Love is meant to be irrational.." Is it true?

When JL & I see each other's life, we seems to be the mirror reflection of each other.. I guess that's why both of us are so close bcos we experience the same things in life...

End of yesterday, he messaged me that we are making ourselves unhappy and we got to walk out together & give ourselves a chance.. We both know is not easy bcos we are stubborn people..