Young is nice...

Today I was on travelling from Tampines back home and I saw this young couple coming into the train, holding hands, whispering sweet nothings and laughing away...

"How nice to be young and be in a relationship" You dont need to think so much bcos you are young and so, you have the time and youth to "try first then decide" later..

However, when I was talking to my friend, J, she said that though 25 is a young number but to a woman, 25 is counting down for us.. We can't afford to play around bcos we would lose our value soon.. unless we really want to be left on the shelves..So we can no longer "try first then decide" and whoever we choose to be is someone we wanna marry and live with...

Oh my! That sounds so scary... bcos I feel that leaves us women with no choice - how pathetic! No matter what, I still feel that you will need to try before you know if you 2 are compatible.. So you still have to start somewhere..

Why is it that guys can choose and decide ("try first then decide") and whereas gals cant choose and decide slowly? So unfair...