Friends OR Ex-es?

Yesterday I had dinner with one of my ex-es. He was in fact my first bf when I was in JC. Though after we broke up so many years, we still maintain contact as friends, council mates, jc mates...

We kinda meet up once a year to catch up with each other to see how's everyone doing (partly also because in case his gf gets jealous). BUT, they are finally getting married next year Nov. I am happy for them of course! Anyway the fact is we are over each other.

But how many of us will seriously be over our ex-es without the tinge that we are just friends? And I also know that there are couples who are no longer friends with each other. Should I then be glad that I am still friends with all my ex-es OR is it because I somehow still feel tiny tweeny bit of feelings for them?

After dinner with my ex, I went down to dbl o to meet up with another group of friends and was with them till 3am. My friend told me that his ex-gf is coming over then am kinda searching on his face..i am not sure if he is happy or what.. but there is a certain tone of mocking, especially they just broke up in July.

Then I am thinking if he really gotten over the girl or vice versa..

Can a couple still be friends and feel like friends after they broke up?

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Last night I saw a guy crying his heart out after he was drunk. I was dumbfounded and not knowing what to do..I could only sit & see him feeling helpless since my friend's ex was already there to console him..

A guy's tear is a more powerful weapon than any..i feel...