Perfect or Not?

Recently i am into posting my "out of the blues" questions to friends and get them thinking. Other than if i am a flirt, bitch / slut, last night while having drinks with my girlfriends at Villa Bali, I just thought of this question:

"At the age of 35, if you found your 'dream' guy, but he is married. Would you then still carry on with this 'dream' guy OR would you settle for someone less 'perfect'?"

Out of 4 of us, 2 chose to settle for someone less, 1 chose neither and I chose the 'dream' guy - a seemingly wrong choice.. But when comes to feelings, who can judge right/wrong? Quoted from my entry on July 14, "If she loves u, it'll be no matter what other people may say. Her r'ship is more impt than what's right/wrong. Bcos of this reason, u may know some Scorpio women become a 2nd wife, a mistress." If I failed, at least I know I tried..

Some of you who have read to this point might be violently disagreeing with me but I do have the freedom of choice, isn't it?

OH! by the way, don't worry, I won't hit on my friends' boyfriends.. hahaha~

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那时我们总有好多话 什么事都可以讲
我的爱情比你早 却一直放在心上
后来你们之间的变化 我不想再多说话
经过了相遇和挣扎 我还是无法将他放下
那是多久后的事了 有一天你突然问我
在那个时候 是否也爱着他
我也很想他 我们都一样
在他的身上 曾找到翅膀
只是那时的他 是因为你他开始飞翔
我也很想他 在某个地方
我少了尴尬 你少了肩膀
而夏天还是那么短 思念却很长
还记得 那年我们三个许下的愿望
星星骗了我们 我们却因此上了一课
成长必修的学分
我们都一样

(From 孙燕姿-我也很想他)

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